Trying to work from home when you lead a busy life is not easy, but it can certainly be accomplished when you know how to do it. I have successfully worked from home for about five years now, and I knew this would be a challenge. From the very beginning I decided to do whatever it would take, and this journey has been an interesting one. If you are just getting started online, I recommend that you speak frankly with your family and friends at the very start, make sure you have a work space that is conducive to your productivity, and that you regularly take breaks to get away from your business.
I asked my family to gather for a family meeting back in 2006. This included the people who live with me, as well as extended family members that I may only see in person once or twice each year. I wanted to share my goals with them so they would know why I was embarking on a new path that would take time and money away from what I was already doing each day. When I presented this to them they were positive and understanding. They felt that they were a part of the decision making process and were more willing to be supportive of my goals.
I set up a desk and a book case in a quiet area of my house. I needed an area where I could write, think, and focus on what I was working to achieve. Even though the area was small, it served this purpose by giving me an office I could call my own. I encourage you to do this same thing. My family knows that when I am at my desk I am working, and that I should not be disturbed unless it is an emergency.
As much as I love working on the computer in my online business, I love getting away from it even more. When I leave the house each day, whether it is to go for a walk with my dogs, do some shopping, or to visit someone, this is the time I cherish the most. I came online so that I could have more money and more free time, and I don’t ever forget that. Schedule some time each day to do some of the things you promised yourself you would do, once you had your own business. You’ll be glad you did.
Connie,
How brave of you to reveal your goals and plans to family and friends. So many times they can be the worst people to tell because they want to give advice, pooh-pooh your idea, or help you “fix” it so it’s even better. It sounds like you have fabulous people surrounding you. 🙂
Love your comments about getting away from the computer. Often, it’s the sad look on my dog’s face that reminds me I need to get up and move (preferably with her). You’re right – we work from home because of the freedom it affords. It doesn’t do you much good if you never take advantage of it.
Lis
Lis,
Yes, it’s so important to get away from the computer for many reasons. I find that I can think more clearly, and get some truly inspired ideas to put into action when I return to my computer later on or the next day.
Connie
A very well written post, something that I can relate to, managing a home, with kids and a full time writing career also.
Things do get a little tough at times, but then like you mentioned so rightly, that we need to take breaks and manage our time rightly enough to be able to devote time to writing, though I still need to create that quiet work place for myself!
Hi Connie just read your chapter in Money from Anywhere and as I have been trying to make a go of my own business for the past 6 months I am super interested in what you have to say.
I have already hads the talk with family and friends and have just shifted my office for the thrid time – I love where it is now as i cna look outside and see my swimmingpool calling to me so I remember to leave the computer once in a while. I am excited by your ideas and raring to go. Thanks for the inspiration ( and the kick up the pants!)
I definitely made sure I talked to my family before working from home. The one thing that is ultra tough is having two small kids. Having Daddy at home is super fun and exciting. My wife does a great job for sure.
As I’m still in the building my business phase I haven’t done a great job of getting away and doing some of the things I envisioned. I’ll get there though.